Think Back Monday........

Think back to JR high..... Was it a great experience for you? Remember how you thought you had it all figured out? How "love" was so easy to fall in and out of. How you were jaded towards everything that the real world was about. What was your best part about JR high? Do you still think the same way about that crush you had? What was the one thing that you were sure of and you were completely wrong about come high school or college or when did your view change about said thing? For me the best part of JR high was the growth I made before High school as far as maturity was concerned. As far as thinking the same way about my "crush" being that I lost contact and do not know how she "grew up" I would have to say no. The one thing I was sure about and no one could tell me otherwise was the career path I was going to take and it wasn’t till my JR/SR yeah in High school till I realized I was going to have to deviate from my original pubescent thoughts and ideals. Alias that is growing up. I hope you enjoy the ride down memory lane as I have. it’s not in detail but that the point it is healthy to take a mental trip sometimes to your past and tell it Hi and how much you have missed it >_< pass this on maybe everyone will have a JR high sort day .

Children. The Investment

Procreation as Webster’s defines it is: to beget or bring forth offspring. In others words have kids but what is the point behind bringing a child into this world? Well many will answer that many ways. Some say to ensure the passing of the gene pool. Others will define it as to have a tax deduction. I am going to cover the reason I think deep down we want to have kids. In my 23 years on this round thing I have found that for the most part kids bring many things into their parent’s life. These little bundles of sometimes joy bring about many feelings of fear “will my kid be able to make it in this world” “will I be able to provide for my child” “will my kid be SAFE?” then you have the feeling of joy “my child is learning how to crawl, walk, talk” “my child is in the top of his/hers class”. But the most feeling that I have seen 99% of parents exhibit no matter what happened in their life or their children’s life is LOVE and that is one of the greatest things about procreation is that for 18 years and 9 months you have invested your love and someone else’s love in to this human being that for the most part show it back 200% no matter what. The point is to go out and enjoy the love that is a child cause no one and nothing can come as close as they do to that strong of feeling.